So some on forum have mentioned their average time frame for new GF/bf. I think KjMudds was 45 days for a while. Although I don't sleep with a new guy right away, I have noticed it takes about 3 months to start seeing them off their 'best behavior' at which time it's something I know whether i can put up with it for a short or a long while more. So in three months, if I really like them, I'll see whether their manners still stick or their attentiveness or flexibility.
(Most men I've met are not even in the running for three month trial however)
The men here seem to prefer to hop in bed with new dates very soon,and think we know in first minute of meeting whether we want to sleep with them. Women, maybe not so much.
But what are the signs symptoms and otherwise red flags that surface close to your average shelf life of a new GF/bf? If your shelf life is 45 days, what types of things are surfacing that causes you to let them go?