Freaky New Girlfriend Chronicles

kjmudd · #1 09-20-2009, 01:13 AM

The "Live One" I met about a 1 week and 1/2 ago is having an impact and I will probably be dating her exclusively for a while.....she will require all of my attention and energy for sure.

Initially we didn't think there was a spark but suddenly it is a raging inferno. This is interesting to me as I almost gave up on this. One simple text message was the match that lit the fire which is now HOT HOT HOT.

This point of our relationship is entirely sexual. We have sex for hours at her place and then can't get each other off our minds. When we are apart we text and talk as much as possible about what we did and want to do to each other next. There is now doubt in my mind that she would do ANYTHING in bed, which is great fun for me.

Aside from being hot and a freak I am very attracted to her because of her personality - outgoing, bold, forthright, intelligent and spontaneous. Like me she is no planner and very passionate.

I'm about 10 years older than her so I would expect to get replaced eventually. I'll ride it out as long as possible.

I will be chronicling our relationship here as it develops for my own benefit and would appreciate any input, advice or questions from the members that would help me or others stay out of "trouble."

This relationship is obviously starting out backwards but so far so good.

KJM

kjmudd · #2 09-20-2009, 11:26 AM

This freaky girl owes me a steak dinner so we are gonna go on a date for the first time since our short breakfast "meet up" about 2 weeks ago.

We will be doing some activities first in the afternoon that will probably get us hungry.

Will be interesting to see how we get along outside of the bedroom.

KJM

kjmudd · #3 09-20-2009, 10:44 PM

Well dinner was excellent. A little weird though in that it was first time in a while that we did something together other than sex! Even then it seemed like we rushed dinner so we could hurry back to her place to knock it out some more. Overall we knocked it out in some way, shape or form for about 6 hours.

When great sex wears off will be interesting to see what is left over.

Red flag? I made purposely understated joke which seemed to slightly offend freaky girl. Might be symptom of possible intellectual incompatibilities...but at this point who cares.

Pretty sure she is a nymphomaniac but definitely not selfish....she paid for entire dinner and tip at relatively expensive restaurant.

My gut tells me that it will be difficult to turn this into anything more than a sexual relationship....but both her and I seem willing to try.

KJM

Luce · #4 09-21-2009, 05:23 AM

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Originally Posted by kjmudd

My gut tells me that it will be difficult to turn this into anything more than a sexual relationship....but both her and I seem willing to try.

KJM

Good luck and congrats, KJM! It is a miracle that you still have the energy left to type here

gregory · #5 09-21-2009, 07:26 AM

Luce's comment gave me a good early morning laugh!

The only thing I can tell you (kjmudd) about when I had a similar experience with the hhhhhot blonde ... was after a couple of months or so of very very very hot sex (in a purely sex-based relationship), that I started to notice little things about her that really bugged the daylights out of me. For one - she was a complete mental idiot in so many ways ... but that didn't matter when we were knocking it out.

For me - the saying "the hottest flames burn out the quickest" held true. It might not for you - time will tell. Your is a very interesting saga. I think the message to all here is that things like this can and do happen at our age ... blistering, white hot sex ... all the time ... can still be achieved in our late 30s and 40s, etc.

Definitely keep us updated on this one!

kjmudd · #6 09-21-2009, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by gregory

Luce's comment gave me a good early morning laugh!

The only thing I can tell you (kjmudd) about when I had a similar experience with the hhhhhot blonde ... was after a couple of months or so of very very very hot sex (in a purely sex-based relationship), that I started to notice little things about her that really bugged the daylights out of me. For one - she was a complete mental idiot in so many ways ... but that didn't matter when we were knocking it out.

For me - the saying "the hottest flames burn out the quickest" held true. It might not for you - time will tell. Your is a very interesting saga. I think the message to all here is that things like this can and do happen at our age ... blistering, white hot sex ... all the time ... can still be achieved in our late 30s and 40s, etc.

Definitely keep us updated on this one!

Ha ha. Truth is I am completely dysfunctional right now. It is just about impossible to concentrate on my work and I have contracts and deadlines. She is very naughty and constantly sends me text messages designed to drive me crazy. Very creative girl she is.

She says this is the way she has always been but never had a chance to express her freaky self the way she wanted to until she met me.

I knew this was possible and had a sample of something close to this with my last gf - the horror chick.

What is shocking to me is how quickly this has all happened! If/when this all ends I may have to do a personal assessment of my character and consider ways to better myself....but first things first!

Yeah I agree the hottest flames burn out the quickest. This one says she wants to keep taking things to the next level haha so I don't what is gonna happen but at least I will have some stories to tell when I am 87....hope I make it to 47 first!

I noticed a couple of things I did annoyed her and the way she lets her enormous beast of a dog push her around. I have had large dogs and know you got to show them who the boss is...but I got to be careful with her on this to a point because they are like her kids!

Well...if I never post again here you will know I went with a smile on my face.

KJM

kjmudd · #7 09-21-2009, 10:21 PM

Well another couple of hours with the freaky girl at her freakiest. Made it home in one piece. We seem to be close to perfect match sexually but we don't know each other at all otherwise.

I do try at times to pry some information out of her in the few minutes of talk time we have. She asked me a couple of questions about my work etc and then it was time to go.

She has strange circumstances that work in my favor as far as keeping this going is concerned. I have never been in purely sexual relationship before, at least knowingly.

Something I am liking about her very much is that she goes to bed early so we can conduct our activities at a decent hour - when I am not fatigued. The other thing is all of our sex is "sober sex" as opposed to drunken sex. The demoniac ex-gf and the Quiet Girl I was dating both needed some mind altering substances to really let go and the Quiet Girl wanted to stay out until 3 am belting out the karaoke tunes (only time she wasn't quiet!).

Will see what happens next!

kJM

gregory · #8 09-22-2009, 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by kjmudd

... We seem to be close to perfect match sexually but we don't know each other at all otherwise.

I do try at times to pry some information out of her in the few minutes of talk time we have. She asked me a couple of questions about my work etc and then it was time to go ...

Sounds to me like your best bet to keep this going is not to talk to her too much! ha ha

That blonde that I was talking about previously - the more I got to know her, the less I liked her (and probably vice versa). If we had simply avoided speaking to one another, it might have lasted a bit longer.

Now this is all contrary to the conventional notion of a "successful relationship" ... but these pure sex-based relationships are not conventional ... not "built to last" ... and so the strategy one employs must therefore be different.

I think everything depends on what each of you really wants out of the relationship ... and it sounds like it is very much a "here and now" type of deal.

This is excellent stuff, by the way - a great learning experience for all here!

kjmudd · #9 09-22-2009, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by gregory

Sounds to me like your best bet to keep this going is not to talk to her too much! ha ha

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I think everything depends on what each of you really wants out of the relationship ... and it sounds like it is very much a "here and now" type of deal.

This is excellent stuff, by the way - a great learning experience for all here!

Yes I agree. Although I am pleasantly surprised that we haven't annoyed each other very much as of yet. 95-99% of all our activities thus far has been sex and 95% of all communications have been about sex!

Something this young lady has going for her in the context of this is that she is from canada and let's face it - how annoying can a canadian be anyhow? (unless they are french canadian..she is not).

Will see how things shake out.

KJM

kjmudd · #10 09-23-2009, 10:50 PM

Well not much to report here right now. This woman so far is very nice. The relationship is, so far, still about 95% sexual. I don't remember any woman ever paying this much attention to me sexually. It is mind boggling to say the least but definitely the distraction from work is a concern but not sure how much control I have over it.

Not that I am complaining but I am bombarded non-stop all day with "sexting" type messages. This girl is not only probably a nymphomaniac and hot but she is also very intelligent and creative...maybe diabolical as well.

Well we will see what happens next.

KJM