26 Year Old Hottie Invites Me to Jacuzzi at 10PM

[kjmudd]

Well I had an unexpected surprise last night about 10PM. Got text from neighbor of mine who I have spoken with a few times and invited to my house party a couple of months ago. Text was like: "I'm bored and want to go to jacuzzi."

Now this chick is HOT HOT HOT and works at a hair removal place....(think brazilian wax job). Without question she is the hottest homeowner in my neighborhood.

Anyways we hung out in hot tub for about an hour. She had been drinking. No flirting or anything from me I was on best behavior just relaxing time.

I am not taking anything more out of this than what it was. She did say her roomates were moving out and she would be alone for a couple of months...hint...hint.

I am 99% certain no girl this HOT would have ever invited me to hang out in the community jacuzzi when I was 26!

So I would count this as another benefit of being a midlife bachelor!

KJM

[gregory]

If you are lucky, you may discover that this hhhot 26-year old has a "father fetish" ha ha

I think you are playing your cards correctly here. Be the "safe" companion for now, and simply see where things go. They may go nowhere, or they could go places that would be outstanding. Time will tell! Go Mudd!!!

[kjmudd]

Originally Posted by gregory

If you are lucky, you may discover that this hhhot 26-year old has a "father fetish" ha ha

I think you are playing your cards correctly here. Be the "safe" companion for now, and simply see where things go. They may go nowhere, or they could go places that would be outstanding. Time will tell! Go Mudd!!!

I'm thinking she is bored with these younger guys right now (probably doesn't get treated with a lot of respect) and I am conveniently located (around the corner) and "safe." She gave me a nice goodnight hug and I didn't "go for it" ...but next time I will.

She was lamenting the fact that she was at an "in-between-age." This girl is also an extreme party girl so is great fun to hang out with. Probably in a week or so I will ask her out on a "safe" dinner date at a nice eating joint.

I have nothing to lose and am enjoying sharing this news about my hot young friend with my middle-aged ex-gfs like the Smart Party Girl and Freaky Girl ha ha.

KJM

[Phillyboy]

KJ…I recommend against the dinner date idea. From the sound of it, she wants to experiment a bit with an older more distinguished guy and you’re a safe one for her, but I am not guessing she might not be interested in the whole, “let’s go on a date” idea at the moment, but rather more of a fun booty call type of thing. Perhaps instead of a dinner date a more subtle approach will be a good idea here…less planning, more spontaneity…just call (or stop by, since it’s a neighbor) and make it more of “hey let’s grab a bottle of wine and hit the jacuzzi again…she is probably associating an older gentleman with higher sophistication so even if that’s not the case…play along with that too…I’ll bet she’ll be putty in your hands. Of course, as always keep expectations low…good chance she’ll get flakey before long…and it won’t have anything to do with you…she’ll just eventually get bored of the whole idea and return her own age group.

All just a hunch…

[kjmudd]

Originally Posted by Phillyboy

KJ…I recommend against the dinner date idea. From the sound of it, she wants to experiment a bit with an older more distinguished guy and you’re a safe one for her, but I am not guessing she might not be interested in the whole, “let’s go on a date” idea at the moment, but rather more of a fun booty call type of thing. Perhaps instead of a dinner date a more subtle approach will be a good idea here…less planning, more spontaneity…just call (or stop by, since it’s a neighbor) and make it more of “hey let’s grab a bottle of wine and hit the jacuzzi again…she is probably associating an older gentleman with higher sophistication so even if that’s not the case…play along with that too…I’ll bet she’ll be putty in your hands. Of course, as always keep expectations low…good chance she’ll get flakey before long…and it won’t have anything to do with you…she’ll just eventually get bored of the whole idea and return her own age group.

All just a hunch…

That is good advice Phillyboy...I will take it!

Yeah maybe if I am bored one of these nights I will do just as you suggested. She did express that she was really annoyed with her young roomates and that they will all be moving out real soon! So I will keep in touch with her and see if I can invite myself over to her place after her roomates are all gone with a bottle of wine or tequila.

Forget the "date" thing.

Btw I am having great fun letting my ex-gfs know about this....especially the giirl I just broke up with ha ha....she emailed me and asked if I had been on any dates so I passed on the news about the hot tub girl...now she is acting jealous ha ha.

KJM