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Fundamental Truth #9 (continued) / page 2
Women with Children can be Challenging

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Key Principle #1 for Behavior when Dating a Woman with Children
Don’t be upset if she excludes you from being around her children.

Many women today will not introduce someone to their children until they have been dating that person for a while.   Be grateful that such a woman values what her children think of her – it is a sign that she is careful and cognizant of her children’s feelings.   Sometimes we men might feel slighted in such a case – like the woman doesn’t think we are worth introducing us to her children … and nothing could be further from the truth.   A woman who won’t introduce you to her children right away deserves praise for being a great mother first and foremost.   The risk in her introducing you to her children too soon is that you may wind up spending time with them – and if things do not work out in the relationship with the mother, then the breakup not only affects the mother but also the children.    Recall that the children have also experienced the breakup of their mother and father, and so another additional breakup can be very unnecessarily hard on the children.   The less emotional heartache any child goes through, the better off that child is – so just remember that if you find yourself dating someone who does not yet feel comfortable introducing her to her children.   The well-being and emotional health of the children have to always come first.   Everything I say here is true for all children regardless of their age – but is increasingly important the younger a child is.   Bottom line – don’t be offended if a woman won’t introduce you to her children right away.   She is doing this for their benefit – life is not all about you!

Women in my life have gone both ways in terms of introducing or not introducing me right away to their children.   Hot Latina Nurse Debi did not introduce me to her two teenage daughters for months – and I was not offended.  Debi pretty much kept me away from her daughters – mostly because they were in the late teen years where they were in to doing their own thing, and could care less about their Mom’s new boyfriend.  When my relationship with Debi ended, it really didn’t affect anyone except her and me – and that was fine.    In contrast, Becky the very hot blonde nymphomaniac immediately introduced me to her 13-year old daughter, Christina – and when Becky and I broke up, I missed her daughter as much as I missed Becky.   

Next >>> 2nd Key Principle of Behavior when Dating a Woman with Children: Be prepared to offer to help her with anything having to do with the children.



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Fundamental Truths about Women and ML Dating Today
     Consider Your Midlife Dating Objective
   Fundamental Truth #1
– Be Happy & Comfortable w/Yourself
         Spread Good Karma
         Too Eager

   Fundamental Truth #2
– Don’t Take Things Too Personally
         False Starts and Energy Conservation
   Fundamental Truth #3
– Be Careful Right Out of the Starting Gate
         Great Sex Hides the Truth
   Fundamental Truth #4
- Female friends are a Critical Asset
   Fundamental Truth #5
- Don’t Confuse NICE with INTERESTED
   Fundamental Truth #6
- Women are Crazy
      Dealing with Craziness – or Not Dealing with It
      Crazy Woman Example – She is Always Upset at You
      Crazy Woman Example – She Hates Your Friends
      Crazy Woman Example – She is Never Happy
      Crazy Woman Example – She's Obsessed w/the Way She Looks
      Crazy Woman Example – Women go for Money 1st & Foremost
      ML Bachelor Lessons Learned from Crazy Women
   Fundamental Truth #7
– Types of Women
      Party Girl
      High Maintenance
      The Boss
   Fundamental Truth #8
- You Cannot Change a Woman
   Fundamental Truth #9
- Women with Children can be Challenging
      Seven Key Principles when Dating a Woman w/Children
           1)  Don’t be upset if she excludes you from being around her children
           2)  Be prepared to offer to help her with anything having to do with the children.
           3)  When in the company of her children, be good to them and they will like you.
           4)  Never question or differ with the opinion of the mother concerning her children.
           5)  If the children act up, let the mother deal with it.
           6)  Do not badmouth the father of the children, no matter what.
           7)  Always conduct yourself in a responsible manner around her children because you are a role model at all times.
   Fundamental Truth #10
– Women Don’t Know What They Want in a Relationship