Teenagers can be all over the map in terms of what they think is fun. Some teenagers want nothing to do with the parents (which includes you), while others are fine with doing things together. It is important NOT TO FORCE a teenager to go somewhere with you - as they will just rebel. You've got to talk to the Mom and to the teenagers themselves to find out if there is something you can do together that the teens would enjoy. In my past, I've noticed that teenagers often enjoy water sports - like wakeboarding, or jet skiing. Sometimes they like to rollerblade. Teenage girls love to go shopping - and their Mom's will love you for taking them. Just remember to keep everything positive and fun when you take the teenagers anywhere - even when they act up.
No matter what the age of the child - the key element I suggest you give to the child is your time. Take them somewhere fun, or do something fun with them. Keep the mood happy and fun and positive the entire time - and be prepared for them to "spin out" or act up. The more fun you are, the more her children will like you - and the more important you will become in their lives. This is all just common sense, but everyone can use the reminder.
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