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    Am now dating 3 women. One is white nurse wrote about previously. Other is a differnt and new nurse, she is actually a head nurse and supervises nurses. Head nurse gave it up on Friday which was good, on 3rd date! 3rd one is a russian woman who works as a skin care specialist at a local resort and is perfect looking. Have gone out with russian twice and made out this last time. Will go out again with russian later this week and she will give it up or get close.

    My question is what to do about valentines day coming up. Am trying to see each once a week but am thinking they will all want to go on on feb 14th. What to do? Which should i take out? If you say my favorite then am not sure which is favorite coz havnt slept w/russian yet but she is hotter than other 2 and younger (41).

    White nurse has been around longest and shes earned it but others will wonder whats up I am sure.

    Maybe I take out white nurse and tell others am out that week?

    Oh filipino nurse has not contacted me in over a week so I think shes done. Dont know why nurses love me, am just average John Doe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by John Doe View Post
    Am now dating 3 women. One is white nurse wrote about previously. Other is a differnt and new nurse, she is actually a head nurse and supervises nurses. Head nurse gave it up on Friday which was good, on 3rd date! 3rd one is a russian woman who works as a skin care specialist at a local resort and is perfect looking. Have gone out with russian twice and made out this last time. Will go out again with russian later this week and she will give it up or get close.

    My question is what to do about valentines day coming up. Am trying to see each once a week but am thinking they will all want to go on on feb 14th. What to do? Which should i take out? If you say my favorite then am not sure which is favorite coz havnt slept w/russian yet but she is hotter than other 2 and younger (41).

    White nurse has been around longest and shes earned it but others will wonder whats up I am sure.

    Maybe I take out white nurse and tell others am out that week?

    Oh filipino nurse has not contacted me in over a week so I think shes done. Dont know why nurses love me, am just average John Doe.
    Niceee JD. I say go with the new Russian. The white nurse has been around for awhile, and it seems like you’re not that serious about her. The head nurse you’ve been there already. You have the most to gain by taking the new Russian girl. Let’s us know how it turns out

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    Quote Originally Posted by John Doe View Post
    Am now dating 3 women. One is white nurse wrote about previously. Other is a differnt and new nurse, she is actually a head nurse and supervises nurses. Head nurse gave it up on Friday which was good, on 3rd date! 3rd one is a russian woman who works as a skin care specialist at a local resort and is perfect looking. Have gone out with russian twice and made out this last time. Will go out again with russian later this week and she will give it up or get close.

    My question is what to do about valentines day coming up. Am trying to see each once a week but am thinking they will all want to go on on feb 14th. What to do? Which should i take out? If you say my favorite then am not sure which is favorite coz havnt slept w/russian yet but she is hotter than other 2 and younger (41).

    White nurse has been around longest and shes earned it but others will wonder whats up I am sure.

    Maybe I take out white nurse and tell others am out that week?

    Oh filipino nurse has not contacted me in over a week so I think shes done. Dont know why nurses love me, am just average John Doe.
    On Valentine's Day, take out the one that you feel has the best long-term relationship potential for you. This could mean a lot of things - but ask yourself which one is the most likely to make you the happiest over an extended time frame. You could look at various discriminators - such as income, looks, boob-size, fun factor, youth, family, baby-yielding ability (if appropriate), etc.

    With respect to the other two, you might need to come up with a consolation prize if you want to keep dating them - which could mean taking them out on a different night, or ??? You could tell them that Valentine's Day is too important to limit it to just one day - so you prefer to extend it to the entire week.

    My guess is that Sam and kjmudd have some ideas for you, too ... ???

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    Arrange to be out of town, 500+ miles away on v day. Then you can schedule each a seperate v day for each when you return

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rooster View Post
    Arrange to be out of town, 500+ miles away on v day. Then you can schedule each a seperate v day for each when you return
    I agree -- that way you can be honest with them, and won't give the wrong message to any of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by John Doe View Post
    Am now dating 3 women. One is white nurse wrote about previously. Other is a differnt and new nurse, she is actually a head nurse and supervises nurses. Head nurse gave it up on Friday which was good, on 3rd date! 3rd one is a russian woman who works as a skin care specialist at a local resort and is perfect looking. Have gone out with russian twice and made out this last time. Will go out again with russian later this week and she will give it up or get close.

    My question is what to do about valentines day coming up. Am trying to see each once a week but am thinking they will all want to go on on feb 14th. What to do? Which should i take out? If you say my favorite then am not sure which is favorite coz havnt slept w/russian yet but she is hotter than other 2 and younger (41).

    White nurse has been around longest and shes earned it but others will wonder whats up I am sure.

    Maybe I take out white nurse and tell others am out that week?

    Oh filipino nurse has not contacted me in over a week so I think shes done. Dont know why nurses love me, am just average John Doe.
    Not a thing....dont do anything, as a matter of fact, tell them you will be away skiing or something that weekend and go to ground
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    I agree with everyone here. BUT if you feel you must do something just take one girl out on Feb. 11th Saturday and the other out on Feb. 14....hmmmmm........not so sure what to do about the the 3rd one. Better idea just to be out of town.

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    Look at it this way; V-day may sort out his dilemma about having the 3 women on the line.

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    Red Lobster is running a special
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    VDay is a big merchant's holiday all around. I would check the electronics stores. Maybe there is a big screen tv, tablet or gadget you can buy yourself on sale.

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