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Being single, you may find yourself dating many different Types of Women discussed in the Fundamental Truths about Women and Midlife Dating Today section of this site.  I will discuss one type in particular – one of my favorite types, the Party Girl.   Some women are party girls all the time, yet others are situational party girls, which means they display party girl tendencies because they just got divorced and struggle with being single for the first time in a while.  As a midlife bachelor, you have to entertain these party girl women.  They are a lot of fun – yes!

Here are the Seven Signs You are Dating a Party Girl:

I’ve personally dated a lot of party girls, plus I currently have a bunch of party girl female friends – and I’d say this list is complete.  Not all party girls display all seven characteristics, but if your date or girlfriend has five or more of those seven, she is without question a party girl.   Here’s an elaboration on each of the seven signs.

1) She is under the influence of something every time you go out.
This means that she drinks to excess whenever you go out most of the time.  By “drinking to excess,” I don’t necessarily mean that she gets plowed – she may or may not get pressed.  Rather I mean that she drinks more than minimally. She might have five glasses of wine, for example.  Being under the influence can also refer to drugs – one of my female friend party girls is always taking Vicodin and then drinks two or three drinks.  When I told her that she was a party girl, she was offended – which I found hilarious.

2) She requires a lot of attention.
Party girls are often Attention Whores – women who need a lot of attention, praise, reinforcement, etc.  There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman being an attention whore. Most women appreciate the attention. Some require more of it than others.  You have to tell her that she looks hot, you have to notice little things she has done or is wearing you have to kiss her when you see her maybe hold her hand writes her a cute little note or something.  You get the idea.  Don’t overdo it, though – else, you might become annoying.

3) Whenever something good or bad happens, she gets wasted.
The more hardcore party girl will always drink excessively whenever there is either good or terrible news.  Her solution to just about anything is getting plowed.  If this is the case with the woman you are dating, be careful – too much of anything isn’t good.

4) She dresses provocatively.
Assuming your party girl girlfriend is good-looking, then her dressing provocatively can be very hot.  Dressing provocatively is closely related to item 2) above – she requires a lot of attention.  You are more likely to get a provocatively-dressed party girl into bed sooner versus any other type of woman – so keep that in mind!

5) She often goes out without you.
Party girls love to party – even if you are not always available to go with them.  She may go out and party several times each week – sometimes with you, sometimes with her party girl girlfriends, etc.   She loves to go out.

6) Your first sexual encounter with her happened on the first or second date.
As a rule, party girls love to have sex.  And since they typically are partying with alcohol, their inhibitions are diminished … which adds to your lucky day.  When I look back at all the various party girls, I have dated in my past. I had sex with every one of them on either the first or second date.  And I’m not anyone special, mind you.

7) You have sex more frequently than usual.
Having a lot of sex – especially during the first few months of a new relationship – is quite common when dating a party girl.  This is one reason why I love party girls!   These party girls require a lot of sex because they need attention, and there is nothing wrong with that!

If you do not already know what it is like to date a party girl, I hope you discover how fun they are to date.  They are so much more fun than many other types of women.  Enjoy the party.

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Midlife Bachelor chronicles lifestyle, dating, and relationship experiences and advice to avoid a midlife crisis. Readers like you are often beyond young adulthood in their 30’s, 40’s, and 50’s that want to understand how dating, sex, relationships, and love fit in with our lifestyles.