SHORT MIDLIFE ARTICLES

Personal Matchmaking – Best Dating Strategy
Have you ever considered personal matchmaking as your best possible dating strategy?  It will save you a ton of time …

9 Tips to Know if You Are Having an Emotional Affair
Here are nine ways for you to know if YOU are having an emotional affair with someone other than your partner …

How to Electronically Spy on Your Cheating Lover
The best and fastest way to know if you are being cheated on is to install spying software that I recommend onto their smartphone, their tablet, and/or their personal computer …

Signs of Infidelity – Know if your Partner is Cheating
Here is how you can know with certainty if your partner is cheating on you …

Valentine’s Day Date Ideas
Here is the OFFICIAL LIST of midlifebachelor.com Valentine’s Day date ideas …

No Date on Valentine’s Day?  What to do, what NOT to do
If you don’t have a date for V-day, here are some excellent suggestions on what to do, and what NOT to do that day …

How to Touch a Woman Seductively
Here are some outstanding tips any bachelor can use to touch a woman seductively …

Spreadsheet Dating – How to Rank and Keep Track of Your Online Dates
Here is how to use a spreadsheet to keep track of the women you meet while online dating – which can be very helpful …

How to Be a Good and Successful Sugar Baby
Here is everything every aspiring sugar baby needs to know in order to be successful, and to be considered a good sugar baby …

How to Find a Sugar Baby on Sugardaddyforme.com
If you have extra money, and would like to land yourself an incredibly hot, early 20s girlfriend then here is a step-by-step guide on how to accomplish your mission within a month or so …

Sugar Baby Explains How Sugar Daddy Relationships REALLY Work
Here is exactly how Sugar Daddy relationships really work – as explained to me through the lips of a real live and very hot Sugar Baby …

How to Meet a Wealthy Man or Woman on Millionairematch.com?
Here are some proven methods to significantly increase your chances of meeting a wealthy man or woman on millionairematch.com (follow-up article to How to Date a Rich Man or Woman – next article below) …

How to Date a Rich Man or Woman?
Ever wondered how you might go about dating a rich man or woman? Have you ever considered what you need to do in order to meet a rich man or woman to date? If dating someone wealthy is your goal, then here are some pointers …

Texting on a Date – Rude or Acceptable?
Gadget etiquette – is it okay to text someone when you are out on a date? Or is that completely rude? Here are some guidelines and exceptions to consider …

How to Deal with a Midlife Crisis Affair and Divorce
You have been married for many years, and one day he (or she) comes home and tells you he is leaving you for someone else. Here is exactly what you need to do …

Fight to Save a Relationship After Cheating?
Should you try to save a relationship after an infidelity? Who should you to turn to for advice … ???

Top 10 Reasons to Dump Someone ASAP
Here is a great list of the Top 10 Reasons to Dump your girlfriend or boyfriend ASAP …

Types of Men
Just for the ladies – there are a number of different TYPES OF MEN out there in the dating world …

How to Write an Online Dating Profile
Here is how to write a great online dating profile that will deliver excellent results. Using ANY of these suggestions will make you many times more attractive than your competition …

What To Do on Valentine’s Day When You Don’t Have a Date
Here is the official 2016 midlifebachelor.com list of THINGS TO DO and also THINGS NOT TO DO on Valentine’s Day when you don’t have a date …

Dealing with Jealousy in a Relationship  
Dealing with jealousy can be incredibly challenging. Here are some early signs of jealousy, along with how you can address and possibly correct this type of behavior in someone you are dating …

Are You a Hugger, or a Space Invader?
Are you a hugger? Or are you a space invader? A hugger will hug you – and the episode will last just a moment or two, but a space invader will stay in your space, and violate you with their close proximity, and possibly their bad breath until you take action …

Seven Easy Ways to Save Your Marriage
Improving your marriage doesn’t necessarily have to involve huge changes on your part or your spouse’s. Even relatively minor changes can make a big difference in the quality of a relationship. Here are seven easy ways you can improve your marriage.

Dating a Widow
Dating a widow or widower is not necessarily just for people older than 60. Women in their 30s and 40s become widows every day due to accidents, or illness, etc. Here is a good list of guidelines or things to think about if you are considering dating a widow …

Early Signs a New Relationship Won’t Last
When dating someone new, anything you notice right away that bugs you EVEN A LITTLE right now is guaranteed to bug the daylights out of you in the future …

Suicide is NOT a Solution for Relationship Problems
No matter what kind of relationship and/or financial issues you have – suicide is absolutely NOT a solution to be considered. It is not fair to yourself, and definitely not fair to those who love you …

Which Photos to Pick for Your Online Dating Profile
You’ve GOT TO KNOW which photos to use, and which photos NOT to use for your online dating profile. Here is the advice men and women need …

Best Reasons to be in a Relationship
There are definitely advantages to being in a relationship with someone you love. Here are some of the best reasons …

Advantages of Cheating on your Spouse or Girlfriend
Although dishonest and disrespectful, some people believe there are benefits to cheating on your spouse or girlfriend …

What NOT to Say About Your Ex
When you are out with someone new on a first or second date, it is best to give some careful advance thought about how you will respond to questions about your ex …

Best Reasons to Be Single  
You can be single, and be perfectly happy – the grass is not always greener. Consider these reasons for being single, and remember that being single does not mean being alone …

Recessionary Holiday Gift Strategies for the Woman You Love or Hate
No matter how GOOD or BAD your relationship is, the recession of 2008 is hitting us all hard this holiday season. Here are some strategies for coming up with that perfect gift in today\’s environment for your significant other …

Know When She Wants Sex for the First Time
Recognize the signals your new woman is sending out, and know when she is trying to tell you that she wants to have sex with you for the very first time …

What to Avoid on a First Date  
No matter who you are – first dates are ALWAYS a challenge. To ensure the best possible experience for everyone, here are some things for you to keep in mind or avoid on that first date …

Trust – the Foundation of All Relationships
Trust can be lost in a relationship for many reasons, here is how to overcome a loss of trust …

What Makes a Woman Turn PSYCHO?
Some women (and men) are PSYCHO BY DEFAULT, while others are SITUATIONALLY PSYCHO. When you are dating a PSYCHO, you have to determine if it is really worth the effort …

Front Burner, Back Burner Dating Strategy
Here is one possible strategy for minimizing your down time in between relationships …

She Said “I LOVE YOU” Too Soon
Here’s what to consider when someone uses the L-word a bit too soon …

Is Your Woman about to DUMP You?
Here are a number of ways you can tell if your woman is about to dump you which are not necessarily obvious to us men who are often happily clueless …

Women Explain to Men the Best Way to Communicate in a Relationship
Knowing how to communicate with women is critical for maintaining a great relationship. Here is what women think men should keep in mind …

When to Send a Woman Flowers
Knowing when to send a woman flowers is just as important as knowing when NOT to send them.  Here are some good bachelor guidelines for when to send flowers, how many to send, what kind, etc.  …

When NOT to Send a Woman Flowers
You have to know when NOT to send a woman flowers – and here are some excellent reasons and situations where you should save your hard-earned money …

Break Out of the NO DATE RUT
Have you fallen into the NO DATE RUT?  Being dateless is not a disability, it is a personal choice.  You need to be proactive and take deliberate steps to get yourself back out there – otherwise you may feel like a LOSER because you are at home in front of the TV with a beer (or worse) in your hand on date nights …

What Mid 40s Men Want in a Woman
Survey results are in – here are the five most commonly desired features that men in their early to mid 40s want in a woman. The results may surprise you – they are not all physical … some are mental, others are financial, but the Brazilian wax job is number one …

Don’t Let Someone Walk All Over You in a Relationship!
When one person in a relationship holds all of the power, the other person is at considerable risk of being walked on … trampled upon … taken advantage of in ways that are completely unhealthy …

5 Signs Your Husband May Be Realizing He’s Gay
Marriages dissolve for different reasons – sometimes it’s because one partner’s sexual orientation changes, or becomes clear for the first time. Here is what one woman went through, and what to watch for if you suspect …

Extramarital Affair – An Unanticipated Lesson  
People who cheat on their spouses are looking for SOMETHING, and sometimes what they learn is not what they expected …

7 Signs You Are Dating a Party Girl  
Party girls are so much fun to date. Here are seven signs that your woman is a party girl …

Top 10 Reasons Why First Dates Suck
No matter how you meet that hot new someone, your first date will always be a challenge. Here are the top ten reasons why first dates suck …

Breaking Up is Hard to Do on the Web 2.0
How to break up with someone politely and successfully manage the politics of de-listing them from your myspace or facebook or other pages …

Have You Ever Been Someone’s WORST DATE EVER?
Being someones WORST DATE EVER is usually an accidental form of art.   Here is the story of one such masterpiece …

Five Types of People who Date Online (from a Woman’s Perspective)
My midlife friend, Barbara, has done a fair amount of online dating – and so I thought it would useful to check out her thoughts about the types of people she has encountered on the various online dating websites … all from a woman’s perspective, of course …

She Suddenly Stopped Communicating with You 
The woman you were dating has suddenly stopped returning your calls and/or emails.  You thought you had something good going on with her – so why did this happen?  For whatever reason, she has probably lost interest in you …

Are Midlife Men Attractive to Women in their Twenties?
Some women in their twenties are very attracted to midlife men because we offer things like stability, security, confidence, attentiveness, appreciation … knowing how to make a woman feel beautiful …

The “One Night Stand” at Midlife
Is the “one night stand” at midlife the same thing it was when we were in our twenties?   I believe the definition of the term “one night stand” changes with age – or at least it has for me …  

Difference between Criticism and Feedback in a Relationship
Feedback is positive and productive, and criticism is negative and counterproductive.   We all know what it is like to be criticized by our girlfriend or wife, and none of us enjoy it …

Instant Doghouse – What NOT to Say  
Unless you enjoy being in the DOGHOUSE, then you might wish to avoid some of these.  No matter who you are, sometimes the doghouse is home sweet home … ???

How to Breakup with your Midlife Girlfriend
She has got to go.  You have reached your own individual moment of clarity where you know in your heart that your relationship with your midlife girlfriend needs to end.  Here is how to go about doing it …

Is Cheating on your Wife or Girlfriend Worth It?
Is cheating on your wife or girlfriend really a worthwhile endeavor?  No matter who you are – everyone eventually gets bored being with the same person after some period of time.   Is the solution to that boredom finding someone hot and fresh and new … ???

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Midlife Bachelor chronicles lifestyle, dating, and relationship experiences and advice to avoid a midlife crisis. Readers like you are often beyond young adulthood in their 30’s, 40’s, and 50’s that want to understand how dating, sex, relationships, and love fit in with our lifestyles.